![]() ![]() I was very aware of my bladder at this point I felt like I had gone from a 3 to an 8 in five minutes. As we left the store I finished my water and just had one more tea to go. The next jeans fit well and we ended up buying them with a nice shirt. ![]() “Silly me I must have gotten the wrong size in these by accident oops.” I was not sure if she did that on purpose, but it was definitely making me more aware of my bladder. Miss they are too tight they are hurting my bladder, I can’t wear these! I felt a pang in my bladder and I knew that this was bad news. She took off my shirt for me and put on the first one. “I think these jeans would look better with this top why don’t you go ahead and put these on?” As I put the pants on they felt a little tighter than normal around my thighs and when I went to button them I struggled as I squeezed in my tummy. We went back into the fitting rooms and went into the biggest room together. She picked out two more tops for me to try on and two pairs of jeans. “Don’t drink it all too fast! Why don’t we go into old navy and pick out a new outfit for you while we’re here?” Miss and I walked into the store and she walked over to the shirts. “This one is cute I think you should try it on” I nodded in agreement with her as I drank some of my water. My bladder was quite small and I always needed to use the bathroom so these 100 ounces were going to be extremely difficult. I drank one of the teas as fast as I could with out it looking like I was chugging then moved back to the water. It’s not that! It’s that I can hold my bladder! I don’t know what happened last night I must have been dreaming! She had brought a 32 ounce bottle of water and two 18 ounce teas for me to drink today and I figured the faster I drank them the fast this silly thing would all be over. You had 32 ounces of water before we left for the mall and now you are going to need 68 more before we even considered a bathroom, but we have already5 gone over this so what don’t you get?” “Baby, you need to learn to control that bladder of yours and what is a better way to make sure you don’t have another accident than a day in public practicing your holding? It is quite simple of a task little one. I'm desperate to find answers.Miss? I’m really sorry for wetting the bed, but is this really necessary? I'm at total loss of what to do, how to punish her, and what to believe. She is 18 and is supposed to be starting college in the fall. And I tried to let it go, but tonight I walked in on her pooping her pants. Several times throughout the past three years, my daughter has thrown out dirty diapers that I believe she had worn and used. I'll see the diapers in her room and show her and ask her and her answer will be they aren't mine. She doesn't have a medical condition and when I ask her about it she just bluntly states that she doesn't know what I'm talking about. I don't think punishment will work but I know therapy won't work so I'm not sure what to do. She's been in therapy her whole life and it hasn't helped anything yet. She hoards things from the dirty diapers I find to food and everything in-between. She struggles with ADHD, RAD which is a reattachment disorder, ODD, depression, anxiety, and has a habit of hoarding things. ![]() Her mom was abusive physically and verbally and left her alone in a house for the first two years of her life. Really worried about my 18 year old, she has a lot of mental health issues due to being adopted. ![]()
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